| Body Rubbing |
Using parts of your body
or your entire body to rub against your partner bringing them sexual pleasure
and orgasism is body rubbing. This can be fully clothed (safer if
you are practicing abstinence) or naked (as a form of foreplay).
You do not enter any body cavity with body rubbing, just rub against each
other. |
| Erotica |
First the difference between
erotica and hard-core pornography. Erotica stimulates the sexual
imagination by words, pictures, and music in telling of sexual adventures
and situations but letting your imagination be part of the implicit
not explicit nature of the material. Pornography is explicit
portrayal of sex in books, movies, or pictures. Reading erotic stories
to each - maybe over the phone?, Looking at pictures. Watching soft-core
movies together, using your imagination to guide you and discussing the
places you will go when you make the decision. All of these
an help the sexual frustration you may feel. They can also enhance
your love-making, once you begin. |
Erotic
Massage |
Erotic massage is a slow
SENSUAL massage that uses your hands, mouth and body to stimulate your
partner. It can include long strokes, oral sex, mutual masturbation
and anything else that feels good to your partner. If you are abstaining,
you can bring your partner to climax with your hands or mouth. If
you are having intercourse, you can end with that and use this as a preliminary
foreplay method. |
| Masturbation |
Everyone does it - even
if they won't and don't admit it. Self-pleasuring is the most common
form of sex play. And the oldest. You can share this with your
partner and either masturbate each other or watch each other masturbate.
If you are already having sex with your partner, this can increase the
intimacy and pleasure for each of you. |
Role
Play
Fantasies |
Acting out fantasies -
up to the point of intercourse , can be fun, exciting, and freeing for
your imagination, Using costumes can certainly help and make it even
more fun. If you have decided to remain abstinent, you need to make
an agreement with your partner that you will only go to a point.
Think of it as primer for all the things you can put in your computer brain
to complete when the time comes foryou. If you are having sex, this
can add to the pleasure. |
| Toys |
There are many different
sex toys available now. Vibrators, dildos, and clitoral stimulators
can be shared with your partner. They can give pleasure without intercourse
and intensify sexual pleasure with it. You can stroke, probe, stimulate,
caress, and obtain orgasm using these devises. Two Rules about using
toys are vitally important: (1.) Always clean toys after each use and between
use on each body part or partner. (2.) If you use condoms to cover
them, always use fresh condoms with each partner and body part. They
can be ordered discreetly through the Internet. |
| Virtual
Sex |
Using on-line chat rooms
to have virtual sex. (Don't knock it unless you have tried it.)
It involves a lot of imagination and masturbation to get a climax.
You don't need to worry about birth control, STD's or your partner (even
if the person is not your real partner). |
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